I guess I've reached that point in my life where I've made up my own perspective in having relationship with men. Many of you might argue that I've never been into one, so I'm no credible person for stuffs like this. Indeed, experience is the best teacher, and I have seen first hand how people very dear to my heart have lost and won over this everlasting battle. Like, both my male and female friends have been concrete examples and it would be a fool of me to not learn from them.
Let me get this straight with you guys, I am no longer that girl who dreams about that 'knight in shining armor' ready to give up everything just for me. So oovveerr that stage ya naaww!! (but that would be totally romantic in movies, nonetheless) I too, am so done with classic lines and mainstream gifts. Like really, you can do better than that can't you? Cos seriously you guys, finding 'mr/ms right' is a "decision". It takes the right person with the right mindset to see me as 'the right one' and to accept me for who I am. IN THE SAME WAY, (girls, you better take this seriously) I should also decide to be the right person with the same mindset to appreciate this guy, with all his imperfections and pet peeves and weirdness. Never forget, it is a relationship, it has to be both of you 'working together'. Falling in love is a decision, not a fleeting feeling. To be the right person, you have to shake-off all idealism walt disney has taught you all these years and start facing reality that you are two imperfect persons trying to continually improve yourselves and grow, and travel, and dream together. Isn't that wonderful to think of? To hope for? Sure it is. So, the next time someone hits me with the killer question : WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE? Simple: the right person hasn't 'seen' me yet, and I too, for a fact haven't 'seen' him. Well, we might have already met but just haven't 'seen' each other under the light of the 'right' circumstance. <3
And yes, I am having the time of my life waiting.
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